Author : Aydan Corkern

Do you really know the meaning of love? It seems like people now days do not know the real meaning of love Many of the marriages today can be base on the initial lust a couple can have for one another Every day if you look in the papers you see how many marriages fall apart This means that there are a lot of you, young and old, that are getting hurt one way or the other Some married couples have problems because of money and debt and then some because of cheating

With young marriages today, it is really bad because some of these do not last a year They start out by saying they are so much in love, only to find out quickly that it is no longer true, or maybe never was By this time, one or both parties of these couples end up hurt or a child becomes involved This small child will be the one to really be hurt as it will become the victim A small child can be put in a fight that it will not understand Children are many times affected for years when a couple can not agree on custody issues

If you have a son or daughter that is becoming the age where they want to marry, sit down with them and talk to them about it If you think that it is going too fast, try to make them see that If you can not, you might want to bring in a professional to talk to them This could be your church pastor or just someone that has been in this situation before Together you may make them see that they really need to step back and look at this person they say they love so much You might want to ask them what their plans are for the future Many of them do not think about their future plans, only the moment

A professional counselor might can help with making these young people see the difference between love and lust If you are about to be in this situation and you start to have any second thoughts about this other person, you really need to listen to your thoughts Look ahead in your mind and the plans that you want to have in your life You might find that this person does not fit in your plans In other words think long and hard before you jump

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