Author : Terry Leslie

When you become interested in a woman, it can be difficult to get past the details of yourself and focus on a larger, more realistic picture You might not be perfectly built or you might have some physical characteristics that you would change, but you still are perfectly capable of landing a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart

Spend your time paying attention to her, letting her know that she is special to you, and focusing on growing and being a better person can lead to a wonderful relationship with a fabulous woman But you have to be willing to give yourself the chance If you discount possible relationships based on your own fears of your own hang ups, you will be looking for someone to validate those If you are looking to validate your own positive attributes, then you might be in business

Showing a woman a good time is more important than showing her your perfectly stacked forearm muscles She will eventually (or earlier) notice your forearms muscles anyway Spending your time apart planning out how and where you’re going to take her next and why and how you are going to pull off letting her know how much you believe that she rocks That is what ends up being important to woman when she is ready to look beyond the short term fling

Very few guys are “the perfect guy ” Their teeth are crooked and they think strange thoughts and they experience back hair and chest zits The perfect guy is going step right off the page of CQ and into the heart of many women But once that GQ mentality goes away and is replaced by a serious problem with acne or the sudden onset of male pattern baldness, they become regular guys just like us

When a woman really truly falls for a guy, she is willing to look past the faults and into the heart of the man While paying attention to details and growing into a more experienced and rational dating companion doesn’t preclude being a serious jerk before hand, if you win a woman’s heart you don’t have to concern yourself with being any more man than you already are

Having fun is the one big huge selling point that any guy can present a woman After all, she already knows what it is like to be responsible and to care for others and now she is ready to be more irresponsible at times and to play on a beautiful Sunday afternoon in the park with you Knowing how to really play is one of the major keys of being successful with women

Check your daily lifestyle What is it about you that can be really exciting? Are you part of the regular crowd who trudges off to work every day, comes home and goes out to the same old hang out and heads home by midnight to get to bed for another day at work? What about your time off? What incredible adventures are you out there involved in and what adventures would a woman like to join you on?

Stay away from ruts and average guy things because women tend to believe that most guys are plain and simply boring And they would be right The more you get into habits and repeat the same thing the more you start to reflect the boring guy syndrome Women like a guy who offer them some thrill, and that thrill needs to start way beyond the bedroom A thrill makes a woman feel alive and like she can take on the world So find the adventures that make you interesting and go with them

Put them out there and let her know that you are part of this incredibly fun and exhilarating lifestyle Women also assume that men who can thrill them in life can thrill them in bed Don’t be afraid of being bold and having a really good time You simply need to find what wakes you up inside and go from there

When you know how to compensate for some of your less than perfect attributes, you become really comfortable with yourself and you enjoy the process of getting to know women a lot more Being authentically adventurous and leading a more exciting life also takes the pressure off meeting women When you are out there just having a really good time with a lot of exciting adventure, you aren’t bored (or boring) and so you have a means of enjoying life with or without a woman And we all know that the guys who aren’t really sitting around begging for women to get involved with them are the ones who get all the chicks

Stick to your principles While you’re out there having all this fun and developing new and very attractive attitudes, a lot of new things are going to start happening, including the sudden attraction of women who are already involved If you’ve never been in this position before, chances are you have been the guy who has been left for someone else Don’t make the mistake of thinking that you’ll feel better if you do it to another guy

It doesn’t raise your status at all and it doesn’t make you feel better in the end to be with someone you know will cheat when she wants to Be your own man and stand by your own guns This is the way you end up with the relationship that thrills you as much as you want to thrill her

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